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A Sense Of Community

Written on December 2, 2009 – 5:23 pm by Charis

One of the most astounding and beneficial aspects of the Internet is, of course, the way in which it makes it easier to connect – sometimes intimately so – with people far away.   As most people know, there are thriving communities around every possible category you can think of online; everything from people who are enthusiastic about collecting Pez Dispensers to people struggling with very serious illnesses and personal problems.

This is one of the reasons why this website was created.  We see ourselves as “citizens of the world,” and we wanted to create a space where folks from a variety of cultures, geographic areas, and personal experiences, could share with each other whatever it is that they wished to share.  Whether that’s a recipe, a memory, or a current struggle, or an affiinity for plastic candy dispensers, we want to hear about it.

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Everyone Should Know Tom Lehrer’s Work

Written on October 28, 2009 – 7:41 am by Deborah
Tom Lehrer

Tom Lehrer

It is only because of my wonderful, well-informed husband that I ever even heard of Tom Lehrer – which is a shame, as Lehrer should be a “household name.” Even though Lehrer is an American, and one of those bona-fide genius types (he graduated from Harvard at 18 with a degree in math – and then finished his Master’s degree a year later)  and even though he is a prolific and hysterical lyricist and pianist who gained quite a degree of fame and success in the 1960’s and 70’s – I had never heard his name until fairly recently.  Very likely many of you don’t know him either.  So, I wanted to share an example of his funny- yet devastatingly “speaking truth to power” lyrics.  There are many  more songs of his,  and you’ll find many other lyrics and even videos of his performances online. His albums are still available as well.  I hope some of you will  look into his work, especially my fellow Americans. You may well be glad you did.  Some people, like Lehrer, saw clearly, years ago, the direction the US was (and probably is still) going.  Not only that, he surely kept his sense of humor in the face of it, which is sometimes more than I can muster. Without further ado – a song (with the introduction) that Lehrer performed about 1965.  As a side note, that was the year before my parents got married!  Note too that Lehrer was not bashing the Marines – he did spend time in the service, and I’m not bashing them either; my sister and brother in law are Marines! This song is a comment on our culture, not a  slam on the Marines!   Lehrer said:

“What with President Johnson practicing escalation on the Vietnamese and then the Dominican crisis on top of that it has been a nervous year –  and people have begun to feel like a Christian scientist with appendicitis. Fortunately in times of crisis just like this America always has this number one instrument of diplomacy to fall back on. Here’s a song about it.”
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A Canadian Recipe – Butter Tarts

Written on September 3, 2009 – 9:24 am by Charis
Canadian Butter Tarts

Canadian Butter Tarts

I’ve never had one, or heard of them, but apparently Butter Tarts are a Canadian tradition. I ran across this old(ish) recipe and it sounds too good not to make some day, and I thought I’d share. What are some of the traditional recipes where YOU are from?

Apparently a national (Canadian) contest in the 1970’s concluded that these butter tarts were the best. They/the recipe is originally from Wilkie’s Bakery in Orillia, Ontario.

Notes that I’ve seen on this and other Butter tart recipes may seem self evident but as I am one of those cooks that is still learning, I know that lots of things that seem self-evident to experienced cooks really aren’t always clear to we neophytes. So here’s the note: One cannot use margarine to make butter tarts! Read the rest of this entry »

Join Our Sharing Circle

Written on August 28, 2009 – 3:04 pm by admin

It’s been a little while since I last posted – there just aren’t enough hours in the day right now. Charis has very kindly reposted her Sharing Circle article for which I am grateful.

I thought it would be worth while taking a few moments to restate the purpose of Sharing Circle. The basic idea is to get people from all over the world talking about their way of life, memories, what they like, what they dislike, hobbies, interests, hints, tips, movies, questions for others etc. Almost anything in fact!

We live in what seems to be such a divided world. Between isolationism and insularity you’d perhaps wonder if we had anything at all in common. Well… we do. And much more than you might think. There is nothing wrong with celebrating the differences between us should one wish to do so, but at the same time we should also be celebrating the similarities. As Sharing Circle’s tag line says…

We’re all in this together.

… and the sooner people realize that the better it will be for all of us. Nationality is nothing but an accident of birth. We are all human beings first.

We get a lot of visitors browsing through the articles here but there’s not enough people getting involved. It doesn’t matter what you post about. Someone somewhere will enjoy reading it.

So stop just sitting there and join in!

Coincidence or God’s Hand?

Written on August 15, 2009 – 12:33 pm by Charis

(Guest Post By Terri Burton)

Last year I went to a yard sale and bought a birdhouse that was high in the air on a pole and the sellers could not get it down.  I went ahead and paid for it and they told me to come back in a few days and they would have it ready for me.  When I went back no one was home and the bird house was still up in the air.  I left a note on the garage door and was headed back to my car when I saw a woman going to her mailbox across the street.  She started walking toward me and so I met her half way.  She began by telling me that the woman that had lived in the house where the sale was had died of cancer several months ago and that her grown children were having the sale.  She shared with me what a good neighbor the woman had been and how they were able to talk and share because they both had cancer.  She opened up and talked with me about being in her early fifties, that her cancer had advanced and the doctor had told her several months ago that she would be dead within six months.  Read the rest of this entry »

What Is a Sharing Circle?

Written on August 8, 2009 – 9:37 am by Charis

It is my understanding that in first nation traditions, (Native American and other indigenous peoples) that one of the things they would do is to come together in a sharing circle. A sharing circle is an opportunity to come together and talk about what is on your mind and heart, what you want the community to know, and things of that nature. These sharing circles doubtless brought and kept their communities closer together. In modern mainstream America, one of the things that are said again and again in surveys is that people feel isolated and they feel no sense of community. That is what this website, I think, is about…to give people a chance and space to share their feelings, thoughts, and their knowledge.
But a “sharing circle” was not the only kind of circle that some first nation peoples held.

They also had gatherings that were called something like “teaching circles,” where the younger people in the community could come together and ask questions of the elders and receive their teachings. I believe that too is one of the reasons that this website exists. I hope that people of any age will feel free to ask questions here and to speak their minds, and that the community will give them thoughtful responses, just they would have received in a Native American circle.

We are all in this life together and to my mind there is a great deal that we can learn from the teachings, philosophies, and traditions of first nation people.

All are welcome here at this sharing circle, I am sure. Young, old, and any nation of origin. Share whatever you like…that’s the whole point!

An American Ex-Pat in France: The After by Nicole Miller

Written on August 8, 2009 – 9:35 am by Charis

This is a guest post written by one of my favorite bloggers, Nicole Miller.  It is always interesting to read her thoughts and to see what her day-to-day life is like in France.  Thank you for sharing, Nicole. Enjoy!

The After

Living in a second language and a foreign culture is an endless approximation.  A mathematical formula I can’t quite get right, despite years of trying.  I have navigated, negotiated, and narrated my life through the structured flow chart of French, la forme, for the past 11 years.  Le fond, the depth – the guts – all of that remains American.

The good news is, on a daily basis, I fit in.  I am not identified on the street as American and my accent is rarely heard.  The bad (or is it?) news is, I am still foreign here, other.  There are moments, both for them and for me, when it is clear, on the surface at least, that we simply cannot understand each other, despite accurate syntax and appropriate vocabulary. Read the rest of this entry »

Quotey Quotes

Written on July 16, 2009 – 12:58 pm by admin

We have a brand new web site called Quotey Quotes (www.quoteyquotes.com). We’ve been collectors of quotes for years and quite frankly got fed up with the quality of most sites out there. So we decided to start our own. We started about 4 weeks ago and there’s already 12000+ quotes by category and we’re working on a quotes by author section.

I wasn’t going to release information about Quotey Quotes just yet as I was deliberately not submitting it to the search engines until it was more advanced. Somehow though it ended up in Google despite this so please take a minute to go and check it out.

As I said, it’s still under construction but the categories section is pretty well advanced and  should still provide you with a good few quotes you may not have come across. Unlike most other quote web sites we will be continually adding new quotes. Most, if you notice, don’t bother. There’s a whole wealth of up to date quotes around but nobody seems to want to put the effort in to updating their web site. We’re not afraid of a little hard work so bookmark it when you get there. It’s going to be #1 by the time we’ve finished!

We’re Back!

Written on July 16, 2009 – 12:47 pm by admin

For those of you that have found us through a search engine link (we do occasionally get found lol) you might be wondering why you got a 404 error. Well… our server had a hard disk crash and unfortunately the back-up was corrupted so we have lost everything. Such is life. There’s no point in getting upset about it really is there?

Anyway, we are now back and we’ll be reposting as much material as we can. For those of you that previously registered with us as contributors I am afraid you will have to re-register. My apologies for the inconvenience.